1. Don't Be Afraid to Ask for DirectionsNew Yorkers are much more friendly that you think -- although we're not known for saying hi on the street or making eye contact while walking around, that's really just how you cope with living in a city with over 8 million other people. If you're lost or confused, most of us would be happy to help you -- just ask. Folks pushing baby strollers and walking dogs are great people to ask, because they likely live near by, but most people will point you in the right direction.
2. Don't Stand in the Middle of the SidewalkOne of the things New Yorkers find most aggravating about living in such a popular tourist destination is groups of visitors blocking the sidewalk. We don't mind that you want to get your bearings or stare up at our fantastic skyscrapers or even people watch, but please step to the side so that folks trying to get to work, home or elsewhere can use the sidewalk without having to maneuver around you and your traveling companions.
3. Don't Lean on the Subway PolesIf you're riding the subway and lean on one of the poles instead of holding it with your hand, you make it so no one else can hold onto it. I know you don't want to get the germs on your hands, but that's what hand sanitizer is for (you have some in your bag, right?) and I don't want to fall over when the train is moving because you're hogging the pole.
4. Don't Try To Skip Your Fare in the Subway
5. Don't Dress Like A TouristJust about anything goes in New York City -- that's part of the joy of living (and visiting) this exciting city. That said, dressing like a tourist might get you treated like one, so consider packing simple, smart clothes for your visit and you'll find yourself feeling like a real New Yorker in no time. That means no sweat pants, no socks with your sandals, no white sneakers and you can probably save wearing your new "I Heart NY" hat until you're back home. Think jeans, anything black, and of course, shoes that you can walk comfortably in (this is not the time to try out a new pair of shoes).
6. Don't Fall Victim To A ScamAlthough most New Yorkers are nice and helpful (see #1) there are always folks looking to take advantage of unsuspecting tourists (and locals!) One common scam is that a well-dressed man will approach you and tell you that he lost his wallet (or left it in his office) and he needs money for the train home. Just because he's dressed in a fancy suit doesn't mean he's not trying to take advantage of you! Playing shell and card games on the street is basically giving away your money -- even if someone appears to be winning, most of the time that person is in on the scam. Use common sense and always know where your wallet is, particularly when you're in a crowded situation.
7. Don't Eat At A Chain Restaurant You Have At HomeI get it -- sometimes you want something comforting and familiar and Applebees (or TGIFridays) reminds you of home. But New York City is home to some of the world's best restaurants and foods, with options at every price-point, so there's no reason to have a meal at a restaurant you could just as easily enjoy once you're back home. It can also be overwhelming to pick out a restaurant, but we've got lots of dining advice to help make it easier.
8. Don't Forget That Manhattan is an Island
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